How to be a sex power lover
Here is what I have to say to you. I know a lot of people don't like to admit it, but we need to be lovers. That's it. You have to love each other. You have to feel the other person is important to you. We all do, but you have to do it with your own self-respect. I don't have to be there for you. We have a right to be free from this kind of thing. We have to take responsibility for our own lives and not have these kind of products, or at least the way they are marketed and the things they put on our bodies, as their goal. And, I don't think it is possible to have it both ways.
You said earlier that you and your partner would take a "cleanse" to start their sex life, and how you would cleanse each other's genitals. Is this a cleanse in the sense that it would include abstaining from any sexual contact for a period of time, or in a general sense? Cleanse? I am not sure how you would define "cleanse," but there's no mistaking that you're talking about a lot of "not touch." For me, this is a kind of a "cleanse," but it is not a cleanse. Cleanse is a form of punishment.